Avoid Common Estate Planning Mistakes

Otherwise sound estate plans can be undermined by critical mistakes. A recent article from The National Law Journal, “Estate Planning Mistakes—2025 Annual Refresher—Part 3 [Podcast],” outlines how to avoid a number of common mistakes and protect the estate plan and the family from the effects of these missteps.

Not providing complete and accurate information. Transparency is critical when creating an estate plan. There are times when life’s circumstances may be sensitive and difficult to share with a professional.  However, secrets can tear estate plans to bits. If assets are being hidden to avoid paying taxes or if there is an unacknowledged biological child, the integrity of the estate plan could be jeopardized.

This is especially relevant in a blended family. If a prior marriage or a child from a prior marriage is not disclosed, the result could be litigation between heirs. Hidden debts or undisclosed assets may surface after death, leaving executors and heirs with tax liabilities and family strife.

Failure to coordinate estate and financial instruments. Financial investments, life insurance policies and estate plans are rarely all started and completed at the same time. However, these and other accounts need to be coordinated so they work together. If a Will says all three children should receive equal shares of an estate, but only one child is named as a beneficiary on a life insurance policy, the three are not going to receive equal shares. Provisions with different instructions in Trusts, Wills and beneficiary designations will only lead to trouble.

This is a relatively easy problem to solve; it just takes time and attention. Review estate planning documents every few years, including Wills, Trusts, any account with a beneficiary designation, Power of Attorney documents and life insurance policies. An estate planning attorney is always willing to speak with a financial advisor and CPA to ensure that the estate plan and financial tools will work together.

Talk with your family about your estate plan. A lack of trust and communication leads to estate plan failure and family fights. If you are uncomfortable talking with family members, consider setting up a family meeting with your estate planning attorney. If the family is spread across the country, an online video meeting can be coordinated.

Even the best of intentions can lead to problems. If one family member is struggling financially while the others enjoy robust earnings, parents may wish to leave more of their estate to the child having money problems. Talking about this openly with all of the siblings while parents are still living is far better than giving the family a major jolt when expectations aren’t met. If the conversation doesn’t happen, a painful legacy may be created.

Relying on joint tenancy to transfer assets. It may seem like joint tenancy is an easy way to transfer assets upon death. However, it can undo the intentions of a Will or a Trust. Assets held in joint tenancy pass directly to the surviving tenant, transferring outside of the estate plan. If a parent puts one child’s name on a joint account but not the others' names, the child on the account is under no legal obligation to share the asset with their siblings, setting the stage for family discord and, often, litigation.

Joint tenancy should be reviewed along with all other ownership and estate planning documents to consider how it will impact the estate plan. Revocable trusts may offer the same flexibility, while also ensuring that assets are distributed according to the intent of the overall estate plan.

Relying on informal agreements. A verbal promise between close family members may feel good. However, it won’t be enforced if one party fails to live up to their promise. This situation arises frequently when family heirlooms or personal possessions are promised but end up in another person’s hands. Documenting these promises and discussing decisions with heirs can avoid disputes and damaged relationships.

Effective estate planning requires attention to detail, communication and the guidance of an experienced estate planning attorney. Ensuring that the estate is properly planned has the added bonus of protecting the relationships between family members, which is the most valuable legacy of all.

Reference: The National Law Journal (Dec. 17, 2024) “Estate Planning Mistakes—2025 Annual Refresher—Part 3 [Podcast]”